Is perfectionism killing Your creativity?
You ever start a project, full of ideas and excitement…
only to freeze up the moment it’s time to actually do it?
That’s not procrastination, mama.
That’s perfectionism in disguise.
And it’s lowkey one of the biggest dream thieves out there.
Let’s break it down. Let’s call it out. Let’s take its power back.
Perfectionism Pretends to Be a Standard.
But It’s Really a Fear.
Fear of being seen.
Fear of failing.
Fear of looking foolish.
It’ll tell you:
- You need more time.
- You’re not ready.
- It’s not quite good enough yet.
And before you know it, you’ve spent years tweaking, doubting, waiting…
instead of creating.
Sound familiar?
Perfectionism Isn’t Helping You. It’s Hiding You.
You think it’s about making it right.
But really, it’s about staying safe.
Because when you put something out there that’s “not perfect”?
You’re vulnerable. You’re exposed.
And that can feel scary.
But Mama… what if I told you the messy version of your idea could still bless somebody?
What if your imperfect attempt is exactly what someone else needs to get started?
Progress beats perfection every time.
Creativity is a process—not a polished Pinterest board.
You learn by doing. You grow by trying.
You don’t get better by waiting around until it’s flawless.
So, that rough draft? That lopsided sketch? That unfiltered voice note?
That’s sacred. That’s necessary. That’s part of the magic.
Done is better than perfect.
Started is stronger than stuck.
Perfectionism Keeps You Silent. Creativity Sets You Free.
When you let go of perfect, you make room for:
- Play
- Curiosity
- Confidence
- Joy
- And freedom
You get to show up. Real. Raw. Human. Wholly You.
And that’s way more relatable than polished could ever be.
You Don’t Owe the World a Perfect Version of You.
You owe yourself the chance to explore what lights you up.
You owe that little voice in your heart a chance to be heard.
You owe your creativity the freedom to live.
So give yourself permission to be a beginner.
To make a mess.
To create anyway.
Let’s Kill Perfectionism, Together
If you’re tired of second-guessing your creative ideas,
If you’re stuck in the “almost ready” cycle,
If you keep quitting before you even start…
I see you. I got you. I am you.
- Grab my free Creative Spark Checklist to help you get out of your own way
- Sign up for a strategy chat—we’ll work it out face-to-face.
- Join a community of moms that understand you.
- Or just promise yourself you’ll post that thing, paint that thing, write that thing... today.
Just Remember...
You don’t need perfect.
You need permission.
To take up space. To try new things. To be seen.
Because the truth is: Your creativity is not a performance. It’s a gift.
And it’s time you started treating it like one.
Let’s create with courage, not perfection.
The world doesn’t need flawless—it needs you.
